Alice
Mabel Guilford was the last surviving member of the Ann (Benbow)
Guilford's family. She was the 12th child of the family and was
brought up in Pleasant Valley, Geraldine, South Canterbury where she
recieved her schooling. In lieu of High School the family graduated
in the seventh standard as Timaru being the nearest High School was
too far away to attend.
I write
this from recalled memories of the family in the Valley and I
feel a warmth and pride for my pioneer forebears. Consider the physical
mental and spiritual endurance of those people! Alice was typical of that
influence. She learned the skills of cooking, caring (home, human and
animals), sharing and practising the basics of homoeopathic medicine and
christian values, plus piano playing and sewing while in Pleasant Valley.
The highlight of the week for the family was the all day Sunday visit to
Geraldine for Church. The younger family members went the four miles with
the parents in the buggy while the older ones walked there over the hills.
For the more senior family members there was also church in the afternoon
(Brethren) while the younger members joined other families in the local
Park.
![]() Brethren Church Picnic at Pleasant Valley 1895 (Guilford
family front right)
In 1902 the family moved north to settle on a farm at Tarata, Taranaki. They arrived at Port Taranaki from Lyttleton by steamer, stayed overnight in Inglewood before arriving at Tarata. From Inglewood, in company of sister May, Alice cycled to Tarata, (some 12 miles). Apparently at one stage on "slippery hill" her brakes failed and totally out of control she passed the stage coach. A local was to relate "gosh that little one rides fast". Their home on the farm was old but father William and brothers, soon felled property timber from which they pit-saw and built a fine house which is occupied to this day. Alice was the oldest girl living at home, she milked the cows, made butter, attended to family cooking and helped with sewing. Father William died a few weeks before Alice's 21st birthday and the family moved to New Plymouth. At age 21 Alice commenced work with "Cockers" the Taylors in Brougham St. Duties included receptionist/fabric sales and taking measurements of mIlady for the tailors, plus the book keeping. From observation and practical application within the family, the skills of tailoring were acquired. Evenings were spent producing fashion blouses of the day-boned stand-up collars and cuffs with masses of lace trim and pin tucks for a 5% charge. this extra work she bought her first piano costing 175 guineas.
Some years later in company with sister Dot the two set up as dressmakers in Inglewood. From Inglewood they moved south to Timaru, South Canterbury, where the business flourished and there were eight in the workroom. During these working years Alice was always in a church choir and an accompanist to sister Dot whose quality voice was ever in demand and together they sang duets. During Alice's time in New Plymouth she and four
others of the family were members of the Methodist Primitive Choir, a
balanced choir into which one had to be invited for their particular
quality of voice. The organist and choir master became her brother- in-law
- Edward Golding and sister May were married. On January 1920, Alice married Leonard Guilford
(first cousin) and they took over an undeveloped farm property at
Okahukua, King Country (seven miles north of Taumarunui) where they
remained for twenty years. It was here the three children were born,
Kathleen Anne, Leonard Cecil and Bruce Norman. Together, through
sheer endurance they made a good life for their family while also
contributing to the community by way of service to School and Hall
committees. Alice was a foundation member of the local Womens WDFU and
served as President for several years. For funds for celebration and
travel to conference she staged local concerts which included items of
choirs and solos, dance and plays. Together with 'Toge' a duet was usually
provided and she also accompained other's vocal items.
Early 1940 the family moved to New Plymouth where
Alice re-linked with six brothers and sisters then living in Taranaki. She
joined a local WDFU and was a member of the choir, and gave considerable
time to the local ANA (Army, Navy, Airforce) Service. She was forced to
live alone for several years during the war tending hens, growing a garden
and milking two cows (within the city boundary). Husband Len spent five
years in Security with RNZAF at Bell Block; Anne in Wellington, the Middle
East and on the Hospital Ship "Oranje" as a nurse with the NZ Army; Cecil
in RNZAF at Ohakea and the Soloman Islands, Santos, Guadacanal and
Bouganville and Bruce in Taieri, Dunedin as a RNZAF pilot trainee.
After almost ten years in New Plymouth, Alice and
Leonard moved north briefly to Otahuhu thence to Wanganui where husband
Len worked successfully as a private racehorse trainer, almost until death
in June 1964. Son Bruce had died earlier that same year, suddenly of a
brain haemorrhage. Having been 'deprived' (these were her own words) of
grandchildren, the many nieces and nephews and their families were a
constant interest and delight to her. A keen gardener, the rose her
favourite flower. She made herself an occassional dress past mid-eighties.
Crochet was her particular passion and a wool crochet rug completed after
age 90 is testimony to this. As eyesight and physical strength deminished
she continued to read and enjoy large print books. After almost ninety
five years of life, Alice's hip broke and she fell, was hospitilised, for
the first time in her life except for maternity. She survived the surgery,
had been walking with support and after ten days was placed in the main
ward, but shortly after breakfast 10/10/80, a heart attack found her "at
peace". A full and productive life had reached its conclusion. Click for Page 1 |