Caroline Cone, Widow, Remarries Alexander Webb 1858

It is said Caroline Adams was the second daughter of Thomas Adams of Harkstead Hall, Suffolk.I have not discovered the parents of Caroline Adams. She stated in the Whatfield census of 1851 taken just prior to the family's departure for new Zealand, that she was 36 , the same age as her husband William Cone. On her marriage certificate seven years later, she said that she was 38, the same age as her second husband Alexander.
Alexander Webb was the son of Alexander Webb of Bouloque House, Arundel, Sussex. He came to New Zealand aged 30 years on the "Sir George Seymour", as a "steerage - free or assisted passenger". This was one of the first four ships to arrive at Lyttleton and Alexander's name is recorded in the pioneer plaques in Cathedral Square, Christchurch. He gave his trade as a gardener.Advertisement  County  Alumanas 19/6/1852

After the death of husband William Cone, stepmother Caroline took over the care of his children William 13, Fred 11, George 9 and Sarah Ann 7. Concerned family in Whatfield invited the widow to take the children back to England. Caroline kept in touch then all correspondence stopped with the passage of time and distance. Very little is known of the next six years - the family continued to live on in the house at the Ferry. It is presumed the widow had sufficient money to carry on and as the boys got older, they went to work from Ferrymead. From their father's estate they received a team of horses, probably 2 or 3 with which they did contracting. With more immigrants arriving, their availability for cartage would have been in demand with labour required making roads.

Caroline was said to have lent 500 to Alexander Webb, who on the electoral rolls of 1856, was noted as being a wharfinger, leasehold (one who has charge of a wharf.) Caroline and Alexander married on Oct 6 1858 - the Cone sons believed that he had married her for her money.The wedding took place in a hall which was hired for the celebration and this was termed a Temporary Church, Christchurch - and the walls were decorated with red and blue paper. Daughter Sarah Ann was photographed in her  new silk dress made for the occasion and Webb lived in the same house William Cone lived in.Advertisement - 9/10/1858

Three days following his marriage to Caroline, Alexander Webb advertised his Christchurch Quay in the Lyttleton Times.

The children now had  two step-parents. Things went well for a time, the boys working for the stepfather and Sarah for her stepmother. Webb and his wife proceeded to live in style. They kept a married couple as servants - the wife being employed to do the cooking. The cook used to get Sarah Ann to open the bottles and serve the drinks at the table for meals as Alexander liked his tipple. In the evenings, Webb would play cards and drink with his visitors and an unhappy Sarah had to wait on them at the frequent parties.

In 1859, the year following the marriage, the three brothers took up a separate house on Ferry Road and Sarah Ann now 16, went and keep house for them until first, William married in 1861 and her own marriage took place in 1862 at Rangiora.

The family story is that Webb was not much good and after spending and wasting any money his wife had been left, he deserted her and that she had a hard time.

No record has been discovered what happened to Caroline and Alexander Webb - the advent of the railway line put paid to his business of river freight, but it is known that he visited family in Rangiora years later.

Christchurch Quay, 1860 by George Turner is in the Christchurch Museum. Ref: Paintings of Canterbury, John Oakley 1969

This was Ferry Road looking towards Christchurch in 1860. On the left is Christchurch Quay showing Webb's Wharf, which was just below where Radley Street Bridge is now. Though some of the boats unloaded at Sumner, most of them crossed the bar and went on up the estuary to Ferrymead on the Heathcote River or carried on to Christchurch Quay which was three miles further up.

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